Attracting Women: Tools of the Trade September 28, 2009 | Posted by DianaLynn

If you always do what you’ve always done, then you’ll always get what you’ve always got. Is it time to get some different results? If so, then it’s time to get out the old toolbox and add some new tools.

We all like to feel that we are special. A woman will respond to being treated as if she’s special. Respond is a good thing, a positive communication. If a woman doesn’t feel she is being treated as someone special she is likely to react, and react is an act of opposition. Not the behavior you want. By nature, we all positively “respond” or negatively “react” to our current situation depending on how we are being treated. Once you start looking for these two things you will be able to control what you want to receive, a response or a reaction. Most people aren’t really aware and this is where you can get a competitive edge.

Here are a few of the old standby tools that have been used by the men for years. The following 3 tools have stood the test of time and every man should have in his toolbox. She will feel special and think you are romantic if you shower her with little special things. It doesn’t have to be expensive either. Some of the simplest little things work.

1- Open the door for her. And this includes the car or truck. And go to the door for her – don’t just honk. She will think you are a gentleman. You can still be a hot, sexy, masculine man and a gentleman at the same time. Many suave men have pulled off the gentleman role. It will work even better if you have a genuine respect for women. You should find yourself with more responses than reactions. If you are just at that initial attraction stage and you haven’t really officially met her yet, if you have the opportunity to hold the door for her that should get you some positive exposure. Be sure to add a smile.

2 – Flowers or Candy. These are better when used to tell her “just because your special” than to say I’m sorry. Don’t get me wrong, apologizing with flowers is a traditional tool, however, if you were making her feel special all along you may never have a need for apology flowers. Keep in mind, little everyday things are special and do not need to be expensive. A dozen red roses may be the proper gift for her birthday or anniversary, but for everyday living a rose bud here and a daisy or two there will make her feel special. As you get to know her be sure to pay attention to her responses and her preferences. This should help you determine what she likes best even if she doesn’t verbally tell you. If you are admiring a woman from afar, get brave and try some flowers, candy, and a smile to get her attention. Don’t worry about rejection, it is just part of nature’s pairing up game. The worst she can do is tell you “no” and if you never try you already made the “no” for yourself.

3 – Notes and Cards. A little note here and an occasional card just because are little gestures that will make her feel special. Some of you will even have the talent to write a poem or a song for her. Even if you can pull off a cute little roses are red, violets are blue it will be sure to impress her. If you see those pink heart-shaped post-it-notes anywhere, they make great little notes to stick around to surprise her or even let her know you ran to the store and will be right back. Routine While On Steroids

All of these things show consideration on your part and if you add “please” and “thank you” to these tools you will have a winning combination, which is stronger than any love potion. Men are action-oriented and women are romantic. So if you want to see some action, jumping into the romantic department will be a benefit for you. It’s all about fulfilling her needs. If you learn to do this, she will be much more likely to want to fulfill your needs. At some point, as you get more comfortable using these tools you will be even more attractive to women. It should help you in your quest for the love and sex circle. A woman will give sex for love and a man will give love for sex. And when this circle happens, all is right with the world.

Important point: If you happen to come across a woman who criticizes you for any of the niceties you bestow on her – run like hell because you will never be able to please her. There are a lot of other fish in the sea. No sense in wasting time on a negative loser.

Just so you know, no one is asking you to change or be something you are not. But if you want to teach the old dog some new tricks, don’t be surprised if you get some different results. Watch for the response or reaction. Make her feel like she is special and you are bound to start racking up some great responses.

So Gentlemen, go forth and build the body of your dreams. I hope you have an incredible day and enjoy being your own unique self. Until the next blog, I wish you success with your bodybuilding along with happiness, confidence, a great attitude, and response from the ladies. This is DianaLynn at BODYBUILDING-HQ signing out.